Samuel Langley – and getting in our own way.

In the early 1900s, Samuel Pierpont Langley — the namesake of Langley Air Force Base — was one of the most respected scientific minds in the United States.  As the secretary of the Smithsonian Institution and a pioneer in aviation, he had funding from the U.S. War Department ($50,000 according to Wikipedia), access to leading […]

Chocolate Tasting — and 8 flavors of anger.

In 1929, at the age of 13, Roald Dahl attended Repton School, a prestigious boys’ boarding school in Derbyshire, England.   It was during his time at Repton that the Cadbury company sent sample chocolate bars to the school for the boys to taste and evaluate.  “It was a tradition that Cadbury’s, the great chocolate manufacturers, […]

Asking for the Can — and Other Reasonable Things

I’m sure there are so many examples of this, but both of mine have to do with Diet Coke.(Insert your own questioning hands emoji here. I don’t mean for Diet Coke to show up in so many of my stories — but here we are.) First example:If you’ve been on a plane anytime in the […]

The Deck We Don’t Use.

The deck we don’t use. Last year we redid our deck. It had been built with basic builder’s grade wood – nothing fancy, and never meant to last. It didn’t hold paint well, it needed constant maintenance, and no matter how many times we power-washed or re-stained, it still looked tired. So we made a […]

Those noisy upstairs neighbors

For 18 years of my single life, I lived on the bottom floor of a two-story, six-unit condo complex. It was the first home I purchased, and I loved it. I chose the bottom floor because it made it easy to take my dog out for her walks. The only catch? I was at the […]

Black and White Cookies. Right Here. Right Now.

One of the things Darren and I enjoy most about traveling (I would actually say THE thing Darren and I enjoy most about traveling…) is the food.   On our first visit together to New York, I introduced him to one of my favorite spots on the Upper West Side: the legendary delicatessen called Zabar’s. […]

10 kinds of parked cars

This weekend I have been in the beautiful state of Montana, and, since it’s February, there is snow.  And I mean SNOW.   The world here is beautiful and snow covered and there are tall, tall piles of it on the side of the roads.  All the roads.  And so, snow plows are a necessary […]

What if we asked ourselves better questions?

In a recent study by Patricia Chen, Carol Dweck, and others, participants were asked these 6 questions:  The researchers were trying to figure out why some people are more likely to take a strategic stance toward their goals and if this tendency (which they call a ‘strategic mindset’) can be cultivated.  They differentiated a strategic […]

Emily’s bar and a different kind of contagion.

My friend Emily has worked in the bar industry for almost 20 years. She has worked in a half a dozen different bars and knows more about bar culture than anyone I know. At 5’ 2” and less than 100 lbs. soaking wet, you would not look at her and think that she could break […]

Name and Number – 2024 version.

According to the Harry Ransom Humanities Research Center at the University of Texas at Austin, “For more than 15 years, Gabriel García Márquez worked on a story about the Buendía family and the town of Macondo. In the fall of 1965, with support from his family, friends, and members of the literary group La Mafia, […]